Wholeness Comes before Peace

Reflect on all the grudges you might hold against your colleagues, friends or family members. These grudges are there for a reason, or rather, all the experiences you lived through in the past were created just for this moment's realization that healing them is your ticket towards wholeness. You are not here to experience peace, you are here to become whole. Had it been peace you were after, why would you have bothered coming to earth school. You could have sat in Heaven for eternity praising the glories of the Lord. 

Only with wholeness peace will follow. Of course you deserve to be at peace but first you have some work and some healing to do. We are all one. If you hold grudges against someone understand that you are judging yourself and you can't be whole if that is the case. Of course some of the psychological damage is too deep and some of the pain inflicted on you can't be forgiven by who you are at the moment. That is ok too, but understand that a similar situation, in hopefully a milder form if you happen to be on a healing path, will come up eventually. It will give you a new opportunity to choose love, to forgive and to heal. Every time your heart wins over your judgmental mind you will transcend to a higher spiritual level.