When are are both demanding love from each other, how can that be exactly? When you both are demanding love, who can actually give? When we are demanding something, we are functioning from a lack of energy. This lack of energy is created by both of us because you are demanding it from me and I am demanding it from you. You aren’t able to give love consistently because you haven’t transcended that lacking energy within yet and neither have I. So you and I create this lacking force together.
We never see that “lack” is our personal problem but we demand it from the external world instead. As a matter of fact, if there is one who can give, then it is possible to ask, but the only one who can give is the one who already has.
When you indulge in any feeling, say you feel lonely and alone, you identify with this feeling, it means that you identify with this force. Because you already identify with this force, you don’t have the ability to withdraw yourself from it, that’s why you want to fill this hole.
Learning meditation and the Letting Go Method is to learn to withdraw yourself from these forces, then we are able to withdraw from these states of experiencing lack. It is not easy to learn this, but once you do, you become quite powerful.
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