Tuesday, May 5, 2026

Self-Fulfilling Prophecy

 What the mind thinks, it eventually becomes. This is called a self-fulfilling prophecy. We receive the same energy we project into the world, so we tend to see what we expect to see and experience what we believe will happen.

 

We rarely realize that the world we experience is a reflection of our inner mind. One reason is that there is often a long distance between the original thought and its final result. For example, when we don’t know how to process stress, we may eat or drink whenever anxiety arises. Over time, this can lead to illness—obesity, high blood pressure, or diabetes. The condition of the body then becomes a mirror of the mind.

 

Every thought and idea is connected. Even when the beginning cause and the final result seem far apart or unrelated, the outcome is still created by the original thought. When someone says, “I can’t stop eating,” what they usually see is only the behavior. But what truly drives that behavior is energy. This energy comes from emotion—perhaps frustration, anger, or anxiety. Not knowing how to be with these feelings, we try to escape them. Eating becomes a way to avoid discomfort. Although it appears to be about food, it begins with a thought and an emotional reaction.

 

That is why paying attention to our thoughts is so important. By observing them, we can trace them back to their origin. If we only become aware at the point of suffering, it becomes very difficult to stop the process. Self-fulfilling prophecy operates at every level—through thought, emotion, energy, and action. Understanding this is the first step toward change.

By Suzhen Liu

If you enjoy Suzhen Liu’s writings, please check out her new book, “Discover Love Within—Release Your Suffering” available on Amazon.

Monday, May 4, 2026

Self expression

 Become aware of what is in you;

announce it, produce it,

and give birth to it.

Meister Eckhart (1260-1328)


Self expression is a curious thing. We would whither if we didn’t give birth to the music that is playing inside, yet, when we always give free expression to what we feel strongly about we would only be venting. So, which is it?


Ramana Maharshi observed, “Look, this little finger covers the eye and prevents the whole world from being seen.” Along a spiritual quest we spot self identification and expression in action and get the self out of the Way.


We have to accept who we are. There is a time to express our conditioned self, and there is a time to allow life to express itself. We are the observer in either setting; a time to do, a time to reflect on our doing, and a time to just be!


Sunday, May 3, 2026

Listening is beyond the mind

How are you when you are listening? Are your anger or grief sufferings still there? When you are listening, they stop temporarily. They are not functioning at that moment. You are not using your anger to listen. You are not using your grief to listen. You are not using your mind to listen.

 

Listening without our mind opens up our self-sufficient energy. The heart is still. The senses get even sharper and clearer. No intervention. It is a pure and unknown state. At this moment, we enter another space, another dimension. We are connected with energy from another dimension. The energy cleansing happens by itself at this moment. The cleansing process is intensified if you speak the Letting Go Sentences.

--Suzhen Liu

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Saturday, May 2, 2026

Be still and let life do its thing

 Life happens and a thought-feeling energy gets released within us, or alternatively, a thought-feeling energy gets released and life happens. We can’t have one without the other. Body, mind and world are one. Everything and everyone on the blue planet arises and vanishes in Oneness.

The opportunity is to live body, mind and our perception of the world in its entirety. Maybe it discharges and leaves our system. Maybe it remains latent in the system but at that moment it stops in its tracks, or maybe it keeps running but we stand beside it. Either way, stillness prevails.

Complete honesty is required along a spiritual quest. We may repress ugly thought-feeling energies only to find that life keeps bringing the disowned to our attention. Maybe we are stoic in the name of spirituality trying to harden our will to stand next to what deep down inside bothers us. 

The silent witness is a tricky phenomenon. It can be a cleverly designed superego that creates a distance between our assumed spiritual perspective and what is. Needless to say, we will only fool ourselves with this approach and life will keep reminding us that we are out of balance within. 

Mindfulness is an acceptance of what is, the “negative” feelings just as the excited feelings. We look at it just as we would study a painting, a tree or a person we meet for the first time. Now or never is in the learning. As we look at the thing “me,” onlooker and “me” energy both transform.

The eternal now is in a layer beneath the thought-feeling energy. It’s quiet there. The opportunity is to penetrate this depth here and now. Life is our ally. The opportunity is to align body, mind and world moment by moment. The thought-feeling energy may be present but we stand next to it.

Being occurs in the here and now. We may confront what is, heal and learn, transcend, or we may get caught in the body, mind, world manifestation once again. The portal is always open. Let go of concepts, will-power and good intentions. It’s now or never. Be still and let life do its thing.


Friday, May 1, 2026

A lost mind

 Most people are not aware of how they are in the present moment. This lack of awareness is the root of our suffering—it is what we call a lost mind.

 

Imagine seeing a curved yellow object. How do we identify it? First, our eyes perceive its shape. That information is sent to the brain, which searches through memory for something similar. Then we reach the conclusion: this is a banana. This is how perception, cognition, and the senses work together.

 

Our mind becomes lost when it is occupied by things that carry strong impressions. For example, some people struggle to attract attention, while others easily resonate with many. We are drawn to certain words, images, or people because they match our own frequency. What we see with our eyes and hear with our ears enters our memory and triggers unresolved energy. When the same frequency—or karma—is activated, we are pulled away from the present moment, and the mind becomes lost.

 

Why do we keep experiencing suffering? Sometimes we believe we have not hurt anyone, so why do we keep falling into the same hole? If we do not understand the cause, how can we clear it? And if we cannot clear it, how can we be free from suffering? We all want freedom and liberation, but without practice, these remain only words.

 

So what captures our attention? It is the frequency that attracts us and keeps us lost. When we understand this, we see that our issues are not truly about other people or external events. Then what is the real issue? It is the mind itself—a mind that is lost.

 

How does a lost mind return to its source, to its original silence? We must observe ourselves and stay in contact with our deep consciousness and then take action. Practice means applying what we have learned in daily life. If we only “know” we are lost, know that we must observe, know that we should reconnect with deep consciousness—but never act—then nothing changes. Everything remains at the starting point. Practice is action.

By Suzhen Liu

If you enjoy Suzhen Liu’s writings, please check out her new book, “Discover Love Within—Release Your Suffering” available on Amazon.

Wednesday, April 29, 2026

Life takes the “you” away

 George Strait almost got it right

when he concluded in “The Breath You Take,”

“Life is not the breaths you take but

the moments that take your breath away.”

Almost, but not quite, because lived properly,

life’s moments take the “you” away.


Tuesday, April 28, 2026

Learning from Our Issues

 When I was young, someone once gave me a refrigerator as a gift. My first thought was, Wow, this costs USD 4,000. How long would I need to work to afford something like this? Then fear immediately arose: What if it breaks? I don’t have the capacity to buy another one. I can’t afford this kind of life. People are being too nice to me.

 

I noticed something important—my reaction was fear. On the surface, it looked like the refrigerator caused my pain. But was the pain truly caused by the refrigerator? Should I blame the person who gave the gift, or the refrigerator itself?

 

The refrigerator actually brought convenience into my life. The pain came from how I looked at it. Because I was trapped in the belief that I cannot repay this; the refrigerator became a burden. In the same way, how others treat us can make us miserable, and we easily believe they are the cause. But in truth, the situation is like the refrigerator.

 

If someone says something that upsets or hurts you, the problem is not what they said—just as the problem was not the refrigerator. The real issue is that their words triggered an old wound. Past memories rise up, and we react from injury rather than from the present moment. It is not that the person or their words trap us; it is that our unresolved obstacles are still there, waiting to be seen.

 

The refrigerator revealed my fear—my fear of not being able to return kindness, my fear of inadequacy. When we learn to observe our reactions closely, we stop responding to the present with the attitudes of the past. When clarity arises, strength arises naturally. Strength does not come from fixing the issue, but from understanding it.

 

The soul grows in the same way. It does not ascend because we “deal with” our problems, but because we understand them. Only then can love appear; where pain dominates, love cannot fully exist.

 

When you truly look at your pain, a new perspective opens. There was nothing wrong with the refrigerator, and there is often no right or wrong in what happened. What happened is only the trigger—not the cause. With this understanding, we gain the strength to address our issues at their root.

 

If we only solve surface problems, the same patterns will return again and again. When an issue is not understood, it follows us. Unresolved energy becomes entangled with our soul, drawing similar situations into our lives repeatedly.

 

In family energy workshops, we often see that the entanglement between two people is an expression of their inner energies. When the “fridge” is fully understood, that entangled energy transforms into love. In that moment, a deep and unexpected joy emerges within the soul.

 

No one can give us this joy. It has always been inside us. Understanding simply allows it to appear. This is the heart of learning.

 

By Suzhen Liu

 

If you enjoy Suzhen Liu’s writings, please check out her new book, “Discover Love Within—Release Your Suffering” available on Amazon.