Death is the one true unknown. We cannot experience it beforehand, so it always remains unknown to us. We simply have no way to fully understand it, and our feeling toward it is fear.
If we only discuss physical death, there is actually not much meaning in it. Even if we could live for two hundred years, the body would still eventually decay.
The important question is this: what we fear is not death itself, but the many ideas and interpretations we have about death. It is these thoughts that create such deep fear within us, making us afraid to touch or face this part of life.
If we do not understand our life and the way we live, then we cannot understand death, because the two cannot be separated.
Let us look at how we live each day. What fills our lives? We need to honestly observe the way we are living.
No matter how rich or full our lives may appear on the surface, inwardly there is still an “escape from ourselves.”
We escape from ourselves through busyness, through engaging in “meaningful activities,” so that we do not have to face our pain or our loneliness. And so we keep ourselves constantly occupied.
When we speak about this, it is not to say that it is good or bad. There is no good or bad. At the root of it all is simply “escaping from ourselves.”
Within these patterns there are moments of laughter and small tastes of sweetness; it is not that there is nothing pleasant in them.
But if we compare these small pleasures to the moment when “the mind stops moving” and we reconnect with what is already whole within us, then those pleasures are like a grain of sand.
The moment you no longer cling to these patterns of living, the moment they come to an end within you, are you not then together with death? Is it not the moment when the “you” dies?
When the mind — that machine which constantly creates problems — becomes still, we naturally reconnect with the love that has always been inherently within us.
By Suzhen Liu
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