When people hear that they need to go deeper in their learning, some may feel reluctant, or think,” Why should I? I’m not the one who did something wrong.”
The moment this thought arises, we place harmony in our relationship outside the door.
In intimate relationships, being “right” does not bring happiness. If we define our interactions through the lens of right and wrong, we push away true happiness and stability, and we close off genuine connection between hearts.
What remains then is loneliness and isolation. This is not the kind of loneliness felt when you are alone, but the kind that comes when your heart can no longer merge with the hearts of your loved ones.
It can also be said that when we are truly willing to explore and understand our partner relationship, it becomes one of the greatest opportunities for growth and awakening in life.
This realization can bring meaning and a deep sense of security to our lives. And when we reach this level of understanding, the soul naturally experiences a sense of steadiness, happiness, and joy—something the material world can never provide.
The core reason relationships become stuck is that we withdraw from the very beginning, and from the start we make a judgment of who is right and who is wrong.
Suzhen Liu
If you enjoy Suzhen Liu’s writings, please check out her new book, “Discover Love Within—Release Your Suffering,” available on Amazon.
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