I met a man who minded his frequent sex episodes with many women, often even several within a day. I met him in a spiritual community and he wanted to do what is right by GOD and love. He reported the well-familiar ‘trance’ that many addicts fall into, in his case whenever he see these sexy thighs and butts of his lady friends, all good intentions are thrown out of the window.
I advised him to try his best to snap out this trance. Have a longer conversation with his lady friend; have a look at her facial expressions rather than zooming into the sexual trigger objects. GOD wants us to be whole, and HE send us the messengers who can heal us, but we at least have to give SPIRIT a chance to communicate with us before the darkness can get a hold of us.
Below, I send the link to the mindfulness article by J. Krishnamurti that helped me a lot when I needed to snap out of sex chats on the internet and porn consumption. Hope it can be of help!
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