Saturday, October 21, 2017

Make it Real

A college friend told us a somewhat embarrassing, but very insightful story. She said one former boyfriend had sex with her and initially it felt pleasurable enough, but somewhere in-between all the 'banging, uh -and ahing' she thought to herself, "heh, he is just on his own trip!" So she tapped him on the shoulder and asked, "What about me?"

When I first heard the story I felt painfully sorry for that guy. How embarrassing! Today, some thirty years later, I feel very differently. So what, he got a cold shower when he least expected it, but afterwards hopefully learned a lesson for life. Sex is a dance between two soul partners; the sooner we learn this fact of life the better.

How many think that porn, sex chats or other adult only entertainments are  just pleasurable outlets to let of some steam. This isn’t the case at all. These clips are cleverly guided pleasure tours which have nothing to do with the real experience of sex. Don't be on your own trip please. You don't want the hottie next to you tap on your shoulder telling you to snap out of it. 

Make it real!

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