"How can God's son awaken from the dream? It is a dream of judgment. So must he judge not, and he will waken." (A Course in Miracles)
GOD endowed me with a big intellect, and later in life, I also developed the eyes to see connections in people, words and actions that others would call mysterious. With that talent, I often recognize conflict as the outcome of subconscious drives that I myself have. If the broken China on the floor was predestined of sorts, why would we judge anyone?
If only I could be as generous with myself instead!