If you cannot connect with your parents, you cannot connect with yourself either. Therefore you cannot connect with your partner and your children won’t be able to connect with you either. If we cannot accept our parents from the depth of our heart, we will be cut off from the whole family tree, and so we miss out on our source, its energy and ability. Even though you are still with your family physically, inside you won’t be able to get that strength, and feel a lack of nurturing from this energy. This is because denying our parents equals the denial of ourselves.
Maybe there is something our parents didn’t do well, and that becomes our homework to complete. Yet, it is important that we have to separate all the things they did to give birth to us and raise us. The most important thing is, parents gave us this life and we have to respect this source of life. If we can have an attitude of respect and humility , and naturally respect our parents as life-givers, our life will be different.
By Suzhen Liu
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