When you are full of ambitions and want to achieve something big, there is often a motivation and belief set, that is, you assume and come to a conclusion that “you are not good”, and then you create a goal to achieve to get rid of feeling of not being good enough.
Assume that I am not good enough because I am not someone big, so I work hard to become someone big to achieve this goal, and then I am not nothing anymore, and I will get recognition.
Whenever we have this kind of feeling and not paying attention to it, we will create lots of issues for ourselves. Even though we are achieving some goals, we will likely remain in this achieving state for several decades because our goals and ideas will keep changing, to be still bigger and better in the future, so we always remain in this state of not being good enough, always not being recognized enough, and never really be happy.
If you find Suzhen Liu’s writings helpful, please check out her book, ‘Letting Go—Release Your Suffering’ on Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/Letting-Go-Release-Your-Suffering/dp/1982258004
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