Uniqueness

By Wild Rose

Comparison is a big trap for us.  As soon as we compare ourselves to other people, we lose the connection to ourselves, to our own energy.

When we compare ourselves to others,  we create suffering for both sides.  If we allow ourselves to be just us, knowing our own quaility, recognizing our own beauty and unique way, and allowing ourselves to develop, we are much happier.  Whenever we are able to accept ourselves, we will be able to accept other people as well.  We will allow them to be just themselves.

You  have to know yourself very well to cherish your own speciality and develop your own uniqueness. You have to be able to experience solitude to find out what you truly know and what you really want. You have to find out who you are.  Too often, we don't know what we want and who we are. Sometimes we are even scared to look at ourselves. We lose ourselves in the crowd because we are scared to be alone with ourselves and scared of the feeling of lonliness.  

When we just hang out with the crowd, we just follow the dream of the crowd, and do what everybody else is doing, we lose our true self, our gift to humanity and ourselves. The crowd may energize us at the moment, but when we are alone again, we fall into depression, only to repeat this exercise again. 

I think the whole journey of life is just to know yourself, allow you to be yourself, and develope yourself.  When you connect yourself in this way, your love for yourself will florish in a way that all your existence is full of joy celebration, and beauty.  It is like God finding Herself again.  When you create, you glorify God.