Knowing why things are as they are is not a requisite to abundant and graceful living.
There is understanding and there is healing, and both are necessary to underpin the recovery. Understanding the troubles of the pasts allows us not to repeat the mistakes. Healing, however, requires solving subconscious knots, as well as letting go of the baggage of the past. I am a spiritual coach. I help people find their SELF and their mission in life. I know my limits though, the actual healing process a higher Authority takes care of.