The Beauty of Sexual Energy

Sexual energy is God's creative force running through you. You can see this force everywhere, in animals, in plants and in us. In nature this energy is innocent and natural. You can observe this circle of creation when animals are in heat or even in plants as they get ready for the next season. Everything reproduces along God's cycle. When we see plants bloom, we are wowed by their beauty and when we see animals mate, we take it as natural without spending a second thought on it.

Experiencing sexual energy is more complicated in us. We are the only ones who can have sex all the time and our mind can get into the way. In some cultures sex is still something that isn't talked about openly. Yet whether our cultures or religions feel comfortable with it or not, it is still a fact that this force drives us beneath the surface. In animals you can see a spike in their attractiveness when they are ready to mate. When mating season is approaching they will present themselves in the most attractive light to the other sex. The same is true in us. Did you know that in an experiment the tips of exotic dancers were tracked over a month's period and that ovulating women received significantly more? We might not be conscious of it, but the creative cycle is alive and well in us very much as in nature.

When the hormone surge in you, you will become beautiful and attractive and you have the natural desire to attract a mate. You can see this desire in teenagers. They develop the desire to hang out with the opposite sex and will start dressing up if the culture allows them to. In the Western culture this is accepted now, though parents naturally grind their teeth over the fact that soon their beloved children will be ready to have sex.

Religious mindsets are hindering more than helping when it comes to sex. Why to step in front of this natural cycle of expressing the beauty of the creative force. Why to make it a taboo to have sex before marriage. The sanctity of marriage makes sense for those who believe that a soul partnership allows two people to become whole by devoting a life time with each other and by raising a family together. But why would that prevent us from expressing the creative sexual force with meaningful other partners before this commitment, or if you have a like-minded partner, perhaps even afterwards. If you repress your natural instincts it will have negative ramifications. Our demon pops up often in the bedroom just because we repress this strong and beautiful force in us.

Sex is beautiful if you let God's natural cycle run its course. Sex hormones make you beautiful if you allow their natural flow being expressed through you. Bloom like a flower and attract the right partner into your life. God has a present for you. Decorate yourself with this magic power and shine bright like a diamond. Share God's present with the world.

By Christian and Su Zhen