We are neurologically programmed to experience the period of falling in love as magical. Take the brain image of two new lovers and you find similar mental patterns as for people who are under the influence. Yet every honeymoon will come to an end eventually and soon the work will start. Raising a family, dealing with job insecurities and illnesses; merging psychologically with your partner can all be tough at times. The old- fashioned wedding pledge applies, in good times as in bad.
If you think you can avoid this responsibility by staying single, think again. You have a job to do and life has a habit of tracking you down. If your life partner can't get you to reprogram your roots, a colleague might, a mentee or a good friend. Life induces you to form these connections to help you find your mission. For a friend you would give it all; for your wife you would walk on glass, and for your children you would give your life. There is always a connection strong enough to force you to show up for life.
Spirituality is the art of falling in love with everything that comes your way, and the Tao helps you with this task. When parents look back when their kids are finally off to college, they remember every episode with rose-colored glasses; the good as well as the more challenging periods. It makes little sense to find your life's meaning only in hindsight - find it today instead. Fact of the matter is that you can experience your honeymoon every day once you discover love for everyone who comes your way and everything you do. Just as a preschooler would hardly say he goes to work, along the Tao you can enjoy your honeymoon every day.
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Sunday, December 1, 2013
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Character and Believe Sets
Who you think and feel you are is very much a function of your belief set. You may grow up in a conservative household learning that the institution of marriage is sacred only to read that Yahwey told Neale Walsch in their "conversations" that He never said so; so now you are confused because these conversations seem divine to you as well. But then, at this stage in your life the discussion is just academic anyway. While you could imagine that you could break up with your wife over some supposedly insurmountable problems, now that you have two little ones to raise you swear to yourself that you will be there for them just as your patents were there for you. Who can say what us wrong or right, only you can say what is right for you; no one else can.
Everything is a belief set. When it comes to God and religion we all should be quite humble. Just because everyone believes in the same thing doesn't mean that it is true. How many people believed - and still believe - in the holy institution of the Bible. Yet when you read it with an open mind you can see for yourself that our notion of Yahweh grew up over the millennia just as we did. Our notion of God are communal believe sets that are not written in stone.
Day in, day out you have to decide who you are. Unless you make up your mind for yourself, you will always reveal who you think you are on subconscious level. So you might as well make your character a conscious choice. We claim that you can accomplish what you want in your life, but you have to be willing to pay the price for it. Some prices are worth paying, some are not. At each stage you will always feel what is right to do, just listen to your intuition as well as your conscience. There is no right or wrong way, there is only your way.
We claim that if you follow the Tao you will live in the best of all worlds from the perspective of your owl development. She will work with your belief sets and will take you on a ride that reveals to you who you truly are. Sure, some beliefs you will drop by the wayside as you outgrow them, while others you will only strengthen along the Way. The Tao will polish the gem in the rough called "you" and when She is done with you, you gonna sparkle like a diamond in the sun. Following the Tao is certainly a belief set as well . We claim it is an experiment woeth taking and following through all the Way.
Everything is a belief set. When it comes to God and religion we all should be quite humble. Just because everyone believes in the same thing doesn't mean that it is true. How many people believed - and still believe - in the holy institution of the Bible. Yet when you read it with an open mind you can see for yourself that our notion of Yahweh grew up over the millennia just as we did. Our notion of God are communal believe sets that are not written in stone.
Day in, day out you have to decide who you are. Unless you make up your mind for yourself, you will always reveal who you think you are on subconscious level. So you might as well make your character a conscious choice. We claim that you can accomplish what you want in your life, but you have to be willing to pay the price for it. Some prices are worth paying, some are not. At each stage you will always feel what is right to do, just listen to your intuition as well as your conscience. There is no right or wrong way, there is only your way.
We claim that if you follow the Tao you will live in the best of all worlds from the perspective of your owl development. She will work with your belief sets and will take you on a ride that reveals to you who you truly are. Sure, some beliefs you will drop by the wayside as you outgrow them, while others you will only strengthen along the Way. The Tao will polish the gem in the rough called "you" and when She is done with you, you gonna sparkle like a diamond in the sun. Following the Tao is certainly a belief set as well . We claim it is an experiment woeth taking and following through all the Way.
Sunday, February 17, 2013
The Beauty of Sexual Energy
Sexual energy is God's creative force running
through you. You can see this force everywhere, in animals, in plants and in
us. In nature this energy is innocent and natural. You can observe this circle
of creation when animals are in heat or even in plants as they get ready for the
next season. Everything reproduces along God's cycle. When we see plants bloom,
we are wowed by their beauty and when we see animals mate, we take it as natural
without spending a second thought on it.
Experiencing sexual energy is more complicated in us. We are the only ones who can have sex all the time and our mind can get into the way. In some cultures sex is still something that isn't talked about openly. Yet whether our cultures or religions feel comfortable with it or not, it is still a fact that this force drives us beneath the surface. In animals you can see a spike in their attractiveness when they are ready to mate. When mating season is approaching they will present themselves in the most attractive light to the other sex. The same is true in us. Did you know that in an experiment the tips of exotic dancers were tracked over a month's period and that ovulating women received significantly more? We might not be conscious of it, but the creative cycle is alive and well in us very much as in nature.
When the hormone surge in you, you will become beautiful and attractive and you have the natural desire to attract a mate. You can see this desire in teenagers. They develop the desire to hang out with the opposite sex and will start dressing up if the culture allows them to. In the Western culture this is accepted now, though parents naturally grind their teeth over the fact that soon their beloved children will be ready to have sex.
Religious mindsets are hindering more than helping when it comes to sex. Why to step in front of this natural cycle of expressing the beauty of the creative force. Why to make it a taboo to have sex before marriage. The sanctity of marriage makes sense for those who believe that a soul partnership allows two people to become whole by devoting a life time with each other and by raising a family together. But why would that prevent us from expressing the creative sexual force with meaningful other partners before this commitment, or if you have a like-minded partner, perhaps even afterwards. If you repress your natural instincts it will have negative ramifications. Our demon pops up often in the bedroom just because we repress this strong and beautiful force in us.
Sex is beautiful if you let God's natural cycle run its course. Sex hormones make you beautiful if you allow their natural flow being expressed through you. Bloom like a flower and attract the right partner into your life. God has a present for you. Decorate yourself with this magic power and shine bright like a diamond. Share God's present with the world.
By Christian and Su Zhen
Experiencing sexual energy is more complicated in us. We are the only ones who can have sex all the time and our mind can get into the way. In some cultures sex is still something that isn't talked about openly. Yet whether our cultures or religions feel comfortable with it or not, it is still a fact that this force drives us beneath the surface. In animals you can see a spike in their attractiveness when they are ready to mate. When mating season is approaching they will present themselves in the most attractive light to the other sex. The same is true in us. Did you know that in an experiment the tips of exotic dancers were tracked over a month's period and that ovulating women received significantly more? We might not be conscious of it, but the creative cycle is alive and well in us very much as in nature.
When the hormone surge in you, you will become beautiful and attractive and you have the natural desire to attract a mate. You can see this desire in teenagers. They develop the desire to hang out with the opposite sex and will start dressing up if the culture allows them to. In the Western culture this is accepted now, though parents naturally grind their teeth over the fact that soon their beloved children will be ready to have sex.
Religious mindsets are hindering more than helping when it comes to sex. Why to step in front of this natural cycle of expressing the beauty of the creative force. Why to make it a taboo to have sex before marriage. The sanctity of marriage makes sense for those who believe that a soul partnership allows two people to become whole by devoting a life time with each other and by raising a family together. But why would that prevent us from expressing the creative sexual force with meaningful other partners before this commitment, or if you have a like-minded partner, perhaps even afterwards. If you repress your natural instincts it will have negative ramifications. Our demon pops up often in the bedroom just because we repress this strong and beautiful force in us.
Sex is beautiful if you let God's natural cycle run its course. Sex hormones make you beautiful if you allow their natural flow being expressed through you. Bloom like a flower and attract the right partner into your life. God has a present for you. Decorate yourself with this magic power and shine bright like a diamond. Share God's present with the world.
By Christian and Su Zhen
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